Why is it so hard to find relationships that last

Real relationships, where you can be gone for however long

And when you come back it’s as if nothing has changed.

Why are they so elusive?

Why is it so hard to reach that level of unconditional love?

Long distance relationships all fail

It’s so hard to put a pause on a relationship to focus on yourself

And know that you’ll still be loved the same way after you come back

Its fear.

It eats all of us up on the inside

Fear that he’s doing something bad

Fear that she’s seeing another person

Fear of losing the love of your loved one

You fear so much of losing what you hold dearest to your heart

Because you don’t know what the other is thinking

You can never know. Ever.